Lies

How do you protect yourself from lies that people are telling you, about you?
I´m not sure my self, but I did hear someone once said that you just think to yourself that "this is not me you are talking about, this is someone else. I will not be affected by your hatered".
Sometimes it just comes like venum your way, and you are caught off guard and you get frozen not knowing what hit you. Afterwords you are angry with your self that you did not stand up for you!
My friends told me that as long as YOU know that it is not you and that it is not true, that is all that matters. It is wise, and a good way to think.
But I can´t shake off this feeling that it is not fair.
I want everything to be fair. The world is not fair, I know, but I always seek out to be fair to others and do things fairly as far as I possibly can. And when I hear lies, and also know that they are probobly spreading like dandylion seeds....It doesn´t feel fair.
I want truth, and I want people to know the truth.
But at the end of the day, you can only go to the people who truely knows you and truely cares and love you, and ask them for the truth. And be true to your self. Don´t hide from your ugly sides or you can never ever change them.

As usual these poor people are acting out of fear, and they should be pittied and not hated. They have there own darkness to fight and the only way they know how is to fight others. And some really BELIVE what they are saying. It is true in there minds. We should feel sorry for them to.

And remember: The only person in the world I can ever change...is me.