Well, well

Sharing your thoughts and in a way flaunting yourself to friends and perhaps others can be very scary, and specially for some people, like me, who is not used to the idea. But you choose what to say and what to put out there.

Sometimes I have tried sharing my thoughts to close family members or friends and it has backfired. Bad. It makes you cautious... But now I am in a point in my life were it does not matter. The friends who choose to not be friends are gone and new ones have arrived that deserve my attention. Other things change with other people over time and you become more tolerant to differences. You learn. I like that. I LOVE that. Learning. It is something one should do every day, learn a new thing.

I have learned today to not trust my alarm-clock. I have also learned the gift of tolerance as it took me 20 min to put my son in time-out for teasing his sister to breaking point. I have learned that whatever my plans are for the day...somethings gonna go. You can't plan that both kids will be home today and that makes you be at home to.

A short while ago I had problems with just that. If I din not do everything on my list I thought I had totally failed everything! When my therapist pointed out that it is OK, I thought he was stupid and that he brought me down, because everyone should help everyone to strive for perfection. Well now I learned that I am perfection....with or without my flaws.

" It is what you dwell on, you become"
Oprah Winfrey